If he doesn t wait he was not very interested in you, therefore he s not worth your time. If he is not giving you enough advanced notice when he asks you for a date, or he has no plans when he picks you up, or he s not. But people can be creative in different ways, and the fact that he doesn t read the same books that you do, well, maybe he wants someone who he can. If you don t want to be alone maybe Samantha does that s a dangerous message. Loyalty is one of the most important qualities that men look for in a woman. Here s what many single women do that we might want to reconsider: 1. I could've written three novels, started a business and hiked the Appalachian Trail with all the wasted time and energy.