If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go. Certainly not mine, and according to the women in my circles, not theirs either. You can sort through five or more supposedly "highly qualified leads" in some cases daily. But, it's no secret that we don't like to think, and we struggle with details. Sometimes We Like Being Told What to Do One of the reasons we won't commit is because we don't want to be told what to do. The question is, whose definition of highly qualified are we talking about? I'll take you with amazing burgers to see how you react.